Having a child was not always in the books for me. I came from a broken home and while I don’t think anyone needs to be a perfect parent, I started out only with a “Don’t Do This!” book, instead of a “Maybe these are some good ideas…” one. That in addition to understanding that my kiddo would be starting out with DNA with potential for glitches and figuring out how to come to terms about how I felt about that (because WHOA so many feelings).