The most difficult thing to commit to, believe it or not, is failure. It’s hard on you mentally—it pulls on you, convincing you that you should commit to giving up. It feels easy at first because it’s all you know, but eventually, the weight of knowing you could have tried harder is too much to bear.Read More
I never fancied myself a doctor, not without earning it through years of intense schooling. I never pretended to know more than I do. I was ready to discount everything I knew from experience. How could it matter if an accredited university hadn’t double checked all of my work at some point?
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I think we can all agree that continuously pushing up against an invisible, always stronger foe is probably not the greatest for our mental health. I know we can all agree that no one wins the comparison game. Not even the person who feels briefly better because they explained how their plight is worse than whatever it is you have to deal with.
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Insomnia is a tricky thing. And it was about time we talked about it. When I can't sleep, it starts to feel like
As part of the process of working to feel better, I created a positive routine to replace the copy of a copy sleeplessness cycle I had fallen into. I outlined that routine in this post: Mxiety.com along with some research to explain why it seems to work so well.
Also in this episode, I got to answer lot's of audience questions this time around too, including:
- What's the best temperature to fall asleep in?
- Does depression cause insomnia or does insomnia cause depression?
- What to do if you lose a night of sleep?
As I mentioned, I am not perfect and can't always follow this exactly as I outlined. Sometimes, I break my own rules, while at other times, I am too stressed or depressed and nothing seems to work. All in all, I hope you find this helps. If not, let me know in the comments below about what seems to help you more!
Maybe, next episode I can answer yours! Send me questions and suggestions here.
Another piece of news, I am now on Patreon. So if you are not very into Twitch but wanted to offer some support, head on over there to do so and get some sweet rewards, like being part of movie night and podcast only versions of these episodes.
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WebMD: Depression Guide> Sleep and Depression
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It’s hard to see something like that and not feel worse at the thought that this might not be the case with your own illness. As much as I hate to admit it, it makes me feel awful, even jealous, when I see stories about people who have suffered from depression at one point in their lives but no longer qualify for the diagnosis. The people who seemingly “beat it,” so to speak.Read More
Due to the chronic nature of my illnesses, I have seen many doctors. Over time, I have learned what kind of care works best for me. I am not here to admonish any one specialty, but rather celebrate those doctors that stand above the rest, to provide great care and fulfill their Hippocratic oath thoroughly.
To help you wade through and shorten the process of finding the right care for you, I have put together a helpful list of what to avoid and what to embrace in a doctor.Read More